Good Speech “SHOULD DECISIONS BE MADE
ALONE?”
Decisions often prove to be crucial
turning points of our lives, so a person should never make any decision alone. Do
you agree with this statement?
I a bit differ to the above statement
that a person should never make decisions alone. Decision making needs to be
weighed on a variety of factors.
It is to be understood why a majority
of decisions are taken by parents in one’s childhood, like taking admission in
school, buying clothes or buying toys, just because a child is immature. Parents
can understand well what is better for their child. As it grows, it starts
understanding life and becomes well aware of its existence and wants. Gradually,
it gains enough maturity to realize where it wants to lead its life. Important decisions
like pursuing a career are already given serious thoughts by the individual,
and he only seeks the seal of approval from his parents. It is seen that many successful
people have always used their sixth sense for making crucial decisions, though
sometimes not approved by their loved ones. Taking advice or second opinion,
however may help if a person is not sure of his decision or in dilemma.
Many people argue that a person may
get carried away by emotions and take wrong decisions if he does not take
opinion of the experienced people, especially in the decisions like selecting a
life partner. For them, I would say that it is not the fault of the lone
decision making, but it is the way of decision making that may lead to a
disaster. You need a good rhythm between your heart and mind to make your life
musical. Influence and inspiration are enough for help in decisions. Even logical
or combined decisions prove to be wrong.
Every individual more or less has a
hidden desire to live on their own terms. Even if decisions would be wrong, an
individual would always have the satisfaction of taking his decisions himself
and would not regret.
No comments:
Post a Comment